Nov 06

One Rope

This story comes to us courtesy of Insook Do who is an ordained Deacon in the United Methodist Church, serving in the Upper New York Annual Conference in the Albany District. Insook, for many years was an incredible Hospice Chaplin bringing joy to a place where little joy is found. Insook is now teaching and preaching to young people. She tells me this story comes to her from a friend and the author is unknown.  
                                                    One Rope
For God so loved the world (all of us) that He gave His One and only Son,
that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. (John 3:16)
After a few of the usual Sunday evening hymns, the church’s pastor slowly stood up, walked over to the pulpit and, before he gave his sermon for the evening, he briefly introduced a guest minister who was in the service that evening.
In the introduction, the pastor told the congregation that the guest minister was one of his dearest childhood friends and that he wanted him to have a few moments to greet the church and share whatever he felt would be appropriate for the service. With that, an elderly man stepped up to the pulpit and began to speak. “A father, his son, and a friend of his son were sailing off the pacific coast.” He began, “When a fast approaching storm blocked any attempt to get back to the shore…. The waves were so high, that even though the father was an experienced sailor, he could not keep the boat upright and the three were swept into the ocean as the boat capsized.”
The old man hesitated for a moment, making eye contact with two teenagers who were, for the first time since the service began, looking somewhat interested in his story.
The aged minister continued with his story, “Grabbing a rescue line, the father had to make the most excruciating decision of his life: to which boy would he throw the other end of the life line.
He only had seconds to make the decision. The father knew that his son was a Christian and he also knew that his son’s friend was not. The agony of his decision could not be matched by the torrent of waves. As the father yelled out, “I love you, son!” He threw out the life line to his son’s friend. By the time the father had pulled the friend back to the capsized boat, his son had disappeared beneath the raging swells into the black of night. His body was never recovered.
By this time, the two teenagers were sitting up straight in the pew, and anxiously waiting for the next words to come out of the old minister’s mouth. “The father,” he continued, “knew his son would step into eternity with Jesus and he could not bear the thought of his son’s friends stepping into an eternity without Jesus. Therefore; he sacrificed his son to save the son’s friend!
How great is the love of God that He should do the same for us. Out heavenly Father sacrificed His only begotten Son that we could be saved…. I urge you to accept His offer to rescue you and take a hold of the life line He is throwing out to you in this service.”
With that, the old man turned and sat back down in his chair as silence filled the room. The pastor again walked slowly to the pulpit and delivered a brief sermon with an invitation at the end. However, no one responded to the appeal. Within minutes after the service ended, the two teenagers were at the old man’s side. “That was a nice story,” politely stated one of them, “But I don’t think it was very realistic for a father to give up his only son’s life in hopes that the other boy would become a Christian.”
“Well, you’ve got a point there.” The old man replied, glancing down at his worn Bible. A big smile broadened his narrow face. He once again looked up at the boys and said, “It sure isn’t very realistic, is it? But, I’m standing here today to tell you that story gives me a glimpse of what is must have been like for God to give up His Son for me. You see….. I was that father and your pastor is my son’s friend.”
May love and grace of God be with you all. Shalom. Insook Do
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    • Miranda Rand on November 8, 2012 at 4:42 pm
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    Wow! What an incredible story!

    • Frank M. D'Ambrosio on November 13, 2012 at 11:28 pm
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    I’ve seen this story before, and it never ceases to move me deeply. I often find myself wondering whether or not I could give up either of my daughters for that purpose. Thus far, the only answer I keep getting is “I would rather die myself than give up my beloved children!)

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